where CHOOSING YOURSELF BECOMES YOUR baseline
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NEXT ROUND OCTOBER 2026

NEXT ROUND OCTOBER 2026 ↯

Elixir is an 8-week rebuild for the woman who knows what needs to change... but keeps talking herself out of it. Because insight isn't the problem anymore.  Following through is.

ELIXIR IS AN 8-WEEK REBUILD FOR THE WOMAN WHO KEEPS TALKING HERSELF OUT OF WHAT SHE ALREADY KNOWS NEEDS TO CHANGE.

INSIGHT ISN’T THE PROBLEM ANYMORE. FOLLOWING THROUGH IS.

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YOU'RE DONE ABANDONING YOURSELF.

YOU’VE FELT THE NUDGE AND STAYED SMALL. SAFE. STUCK.

You’re the one people rely on. The steady one. The one who handles it. And when something feels off for you, you don’t stop. You adjust and keep going.

You’ve done the work. Therapy. Journaling. All the books. You can name the pattern. You can explain it from twelve angles. And still, when the moment comes to choose differently... you start making a case for staying where you are.

Every decision becomes a loop: is this intuition or fear? your voice or someone else’s? Your voice or someone else's? Somewhere along the way you stopped trusting the difference. So now every choice feels heavier than it should.

Your life is “fine.”
But you can feel the gap between the life you’re living and the one you know is possible.

You're tired of living beside yourself. Tired of collecting insights without changing. Tired of knowing what you need and still freezing when it's time to move.

Lazy isn't the word. Incapable isn't either. You learned to talk yourself out of what you know is best for You.

That's the only thing Elixir is here to change.


my philosophy

Why Elixir Exists

Most women who come to me don't need more awareness. They've already done the reading, the journaling, the therapy. They can name the pattern, explain the wound, trace it back to its origin.

And still, when the moment comes to choose differently, the old response takes over.

I've watched this happen in my own life too. I spent years believing that if I understood myself deeply enough, eventually everything would change. More insight. More clarity. More awareness.

It didn't.

The answer wasn't another realization. It was learning how to act on what I already knew, in the moment I already knew it, before the old habit stepped back in.

That's the gap Elixir is built for. Not the first insight. The space after it. The conversation you know you need to have. The boundary you know you need to hold. The decision you already feel in your bones.

Insight is where we begin. Not where we stop.


start with The Baseline

A free 7-day practice

For the woman who keeps finding herself back inside the same pattern, even after she swore she was done with it.

From September 21–27, The Baseline is a seven-day practice built around one question: What actually happens in the moment you talk yourself out of changing?

We'll begin with a live opening call on September 20, then spend the week noticing what pulls you back, what you tell yourself, and the moment the pattern starts getting renegotiated.

This is not a challenge. There's nothing to prove, complete, or do perfectly. Just seven days of paying attention to what's already happening.

The Baseline helps you catch the pattern in real time. Elixir is where we work with why you keep returning to it.

INSIDE ELIXIR

THE TOOLS THAT INTERRUPT THE PATTERN

The work inside Elixir isn't here to help you understand yourself. You already do. It's here to help you respond differently when it matters.

  • Daily EFT to lower the charge behind the the fear, guilt, and old story so you're not fighting yourself every time you try to choose differently.

  • Hypnosis to retrain the loop you keep returning to at the level it actually runs, underneath the awareness.

  • Guided Intuitive Healing work to clear what's been keeping the pattern in place and reconnect you to your own signal.

  • Weekly rituals to bring the work into your week. Not a separate healing practice. Something that moves with your life.

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weekly sessions

90-minute live group sessions

OCT 21- DEC 9 | Live via Zoom

This is where the work happens. We go beyond talking about what’s coming up and actually move through it, together.

You'll leave each session clearer and knowing what you're working with next.

NO. 1

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1-on-1

Between-Session support

You don’t get left alone between sessions. When resistance shows up, you bring it here.

You’ll receive voice note support from me directly so you're not disappearing into the spiral between calls.

NO. 2

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tools

Weekly Practices

Simple, repeatable rituals
that help you stay connected to yourself when your week gets loud.

These are the small anchors that help you come back faster.

NO. 3

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THE INNER CIRCLE

Private Community

A space off social media. You'll be witnessed and supported by women practicing the same return.

The kind of space where you don't have to pretend you're fine.

NO. 4

8 weeks. One session per week. Real-time integration.

THE ELIXIR METHOD

Here’s how it works ↯

ELIXIR

THIS IS WHERE TIMELINES SHIFT

The work underneath the patterns you keep repeating. The kind that changes how you live, not just how you feel. This is where things stop almost working… and start holding in your life.


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WHAT ACTUALLY SHIFTS

THIS IS WHAT CHANGES

The version of you who trusts herself and follows through. By the end of 8 weeks, here's what changes when you stop waiting:

You make a decision and you don't reopen it three days later looking for one more sign it was right.

You have the conversation you've been rehearsing in the shower for six months. Not perfectly. But you have it.

You stop negotiating with what you already know. What you want becomes something you honor, not something you revisit every week.

You're back in your life.
Not watching it from a distance, not numbing out, not waiting for some future version of yourself to show up and take over.
Present. Here. Choosing.

You say no without a three-paragraph explanation. You hold it. You don't spend the next week wondering if you were too much.

The women who finish Elixir aren't looking for another thing to consume. They trust themselves in the moment. They act on what they know. They make choices that feel like self-respect instead of survival.


WHEN WOMEN COME BACK TO THEMSELVES, THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS ↯

THIS IS WHERE THE WORK STICKS

THE INTEGRATION:

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INTEGRATION CIRCLE
A live gathering held after our eight-week journey closes.

We’ll meet one final time to integrate your shifts, honor your growth, and name what comes next.

The point isn’t to leave with notes. It’s to leave with something you can live.

This is the work that helps you stop circling your potential and start living with clarity, consistency, and self-trust.

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YOU’VE DONE THE WORK.

NOW IT’S TIME TO BE THE ONE WHO FOLLOWS THROUGH.


transformational personal growth program. Energy healing, spiritual mentorship.

HEY I’M BETHANY YOUR GUIDE

ABOUT ME
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This isn’t just what I teach. It’s what saved me from living a life that wasn’t mine.

I know what it’s like to question yourself constantly.
To overthink every decision. To feel disconnected from your own voice. Not because you’re lost, but because you’ve learned to override yourself.

For years, I thought more insight would solve it. If I understood myself deeply enough, eventually everything would change.

It didn't.

What changed my life was learning how to act on what I already knew. I didn’t find this work as a concept. I found it when I needed something that could meet me where I was. Something that didn't just help me understand my patterns, but helped me make different choices in my life.

That's what this became.

Now, this is the work I guide you through. Not surface-level shifts. Or temporary clarity. Change you can feel in how you choose, how you show up, and how you trust yourself every day.

The work I guide you through isn't surface-level and it isn't temporary. It's the kind you feel in how you choose, how you show up, and how you trust yourself every day.

With 10 years in practice and trauma-informed training, my work blends grounded healing with intuitive guidance. You're not just supported. You have somewhere steady to begin.

This is your return. To yourself. To what's been waiting underneath the noise. And the version of you that's ready for more than almost.

quick facts

SOUL MAP
☉ Cancer | ☾ Aquarius | ↑ Virgo

5|1 Splenic Projector

#1 BUCKET LIST ITEM
Travel to Alaska to try ice fishing

DOG OR CAT PERSON?
I’ve parented both, but my love for my 15 year old special needs ChiWeenie trumps all

MY FAVORITE PLACE
Monteverde, Costa Rica

CURRENTLY READING
City of Brass by S.A. Chakraborty

CURRENTLY LOVING
Trader Joe’s movie theater popcorn as a late night snack..okay an anytime snack

MY CHILDHOOD DREAM
To become a pediatrician. I’ve always wanted to help others heal!

MY FAVORITE FOOD
Mint chocolate chip ice cream or tiramisu..they’re tied for first

IS THIS YOU? 
ANOTHER BREAKTHROUGH ISN'T COMING TO SAVE YOU. A NEW BASELINE IS.

ELIXIR IS FOR YOU IF:

  • You’ve outgrown parts of your life, but keep trying to convince yourself to stay comfortable inside them.

  • You’re high-functioning on the outside and disconnected on the inside.

  • You keep waiting to feel “ready” before making the decision, saying the thing, changing the pattern, or choosing differently.

  • You’ve become incredibly self-aware… but still find yourself repeating the same dynamics when life gets uncomfortable.

  • You crave a different kind of relationship with yourself: one rooted in trust, honesty, confidence, and the ability to stop abandoning yourself in real time.

  • You’re not looking for another place to endlessly process yourself. You’re ready to live differently.

ELIXIR IS NOT FOR YOU IF YOU WANT A PASSIVE EXPERIENCE.

THIS IS A REBUILD. YOU HAVE TO SHOW UP FOR IT.


READY TO JOIN?

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READY TO JOIN? ❍ ☽

WHAT YOU’RE DEVOTING TO

Eight 90-minute live sessions where we work through the patterns, beliefs, and energetic blocks shaping the way you choose, receive, speak, and show up.

Support between sessions grounded ways to bring the work into your week: your decisions, your relationships, your mornings, your life.

Daily practices (EFT, guided rituals, energetic work) for the moments when fear, doubt, guilt, or overthinking starts to get loud.

Private Inner Circle community for reflection, support, celebration, and remembering you’re not the only one.

If you’re still feeling into this,
you can explore the
FAQs or book a call with me. But if you already know you don’t need another week to think about it.

TLDR

The Details


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WHAT ELSE WOULD YOU LIKE TO KNOW?

FAQS

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IN DEVOTION TO YOURSELF

You’ve been circling this long enough.

THIS IS YOUR MOVE

The next version of you starts with a decision


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